The Victim Card in Marriage: Time for Women to Reflect

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We live In a society where women believe that they are automatically the victims because they are women. 

Whatever the situation is between them, the man is always at fault.

She will cheat and still blame it on her man. She will get angry and aggressive and call it his fault.

Majority of men are not as vocal as women so it’s women who often control the narrative. 

Women associate men with words like narcissist, gaslight, manipulate, controlling , domineering etc because they believe these are generally masculine traits. 

Women who do not even know the meaning of narcissism call their men narcissists.

Women continue to play the victim card instead of reflecting on how they can also do better.

It takes two to make a marriage work and because you're a woman, you are not exempted, being female doesn't automatically excuse nor exonerate you.

Stop the manipulation 
Stop the gaslighting
Stop playing the victim card.

There's way you're part of that relationship and marriage and your finger prints is never on any issues in that place.

Think back at when you disrespected him, when you shout at him, called him names, walked out on him, hiss at him, cut the call on him.

Think back at when you cheated, when you closed your legs and denied him his right, when you lied, when you kept that secret, contacting your ex, begging other men for money, entertaining your admirers, think about when you didn't perform your feminine roles at home etc

You're female but that doesn't make you innocent. In most cases, women are the very cause of the issues at home but cry out to the families and friends playing the victim.

Think, reflect and get better.

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